When It Comes To Shopping...

When it comes to shopping there are a few things I expect in service. I have been accompanying my cousin, the bride to be to shop for some items for her wedding. It was awesome being a company not to shop for me but to shop for the best deal, look and trend in town just for her. Being out of focus feels great esp when you know ya comments matters much.;)

So we’ve been shopping and these week’s focus was on Indian costume. We went to shop for bangles. I am pretty particular as a customer personally. I expect good service. And also the sales person to be at least friendly, comfy or helpful. Or else I would get pretty irritated. I know me. You turn me off and the clothes you offer me turns me off too. Unless it has its own language. Than Gee.. sales person is lucky.:P yeah yeah so maybe I am a little demanding. But I seriously don’t think anyone would really want to buy from a pushy rude and demanding sales person. Shouldn’t it be the other way round? *shrugs Give me the best deal. Offer me a few alternatives. And I will pick the thing that appeals to me. Isn’t that how its suppose to swing? I remember a quote hung around the company that says, ‘customers are always right., Ok I see the point. But I see it further when I am a customer myself.lol.

Why this drama? Went shopping with my cuzzy and entered a shop that was totally disrespectful. Did not give alternatives. And just plain pushy. I tot it was pretty unacceptable. To think we tot it was one of the best shops that could offer us the best products, deals and services. But gee..i was alittle taken aback by the sales person. My cuzzy had in mind to purchase the product but did not due to the missing set that would probably reach around next week. I guess she sees it better to see the new sets in before making a big buy. Than again, to our surprise the lady demanded that we buy her products now. I tot she was pretty rude and big liar. I realized that she was putting up her marketing skill probably thinking that she could sweep up with her rough tone. But too bad. Working in the working world we just felt the swing she was trying to pull. Snap shot turn back. We just told her we would come back pretty much turn off with her attitude. We kept our cool though. That’s the wisest way to move.

While strolling down, we saw another shop selling the same products. We decided to take a peek and see what they have to offer. The service was so much better. So much alternatives. And great prices!! The look is awesome too! What more would you want seriously. I realized that being a shopper I know what I would like as a customer. And the importance of not being a pushy idiot and transparent liar by thinking you can swerve people just by ya stupid tone or facial expressions. Customers will just walk away, possibly with rolled eyes and raised eyebrows. Like whatever.

Another thing abt me when I shop. Esp when I am getting something I am infamiliar with.I like to browse a few shops before I settle for a final deal. There will just come a point when something is captivating. Being a company is awesome. AT the end of the day, what matters is the bride feels the same pinch of good lookingness and also that she looks extravagantly pretty!!;)

Moments You shouldn't Know

Moments when you are left with no choice
But to keep silent
Moments when you have no choice
But to not complete a sentence
Moments when you have to just hear the words
Spoken and not push the button
Moments when you have to feel the cut
Without a hint of sorrow
Moments when you just can’t let your emotions roll
But strengthen your soul
Moments when you have to desperately
Press ya lips together
To not let your feelings show
Moments when you are left to cry
Without a single soul’s know
Moments when you are meant to be alone
Without any song embracing your soul



Let silence caress
Let the tears flow
Cry tonight and be sure to wake up tomorrow
To face the next new road

Just tonight let it rain from my soul.

Reality Bites.

Facing reality hurts. But what is truth is truth and it will not change nor compromise just because you don’t feel the same. There are certain things that can be compromised. Just not every thing.

There is probably an ongoing habit around. The habit to compromise just to make the other party happy. I am not saying its wrong. But it comes across as something as good as unconsciously done or perhaps a natural side that we notice a little later once the darker face shows up. I am not sure which but it falls in either one.

There is just that natural sensing to want to please that special someone. To want to make him happy at the stake of your heart at times. Or even compromise your heart choosing to believe something that is not in your heart. Hence, you hold back words that could jolly well be spoken out cause reality bites! Or perhaps to protect your own heart.

At the end of the day, The truth will always surface up. That’s the beauty of truth. Despite its bites. It never fails to show the fact that its always the winner in its own way many times. As they always say, the truth prevails.

Advice: Rather live with the truth now than forsake it until a later time. Cause it always comes around in its own special way to surprise. Sucks but true. Reality bites. Ouch!

Honestly, writing it, talking abt it, sharing your opinions on it is so easy. But walking it is like weighing your two selves to see the glimpse yet reluctantly wanting to accept the reality. Some prefer treating the heart right now. It’s a temptation that all of us go through. Some prefer to ditch the heart now and taste the sweetest wine when its time. I am not saying that bad wines are bad. Bad ones or a once upon sweetest wine usually paint a clearer picture out and a strong headed person many times. The beauty of the storms in life that prune us.

I find it hard to compromise when it comes to certain things. Especially when its In the expense of throwing myself away just so another person will be happy. I know I won’t last. At the end of the day, I will return to where I belong. I feel for them. I emphatise with them. But yet I’ve learn a lesson to remember myself. Cause at the end of day. Its me, myself and i. I would be doing myself and the other party a favour by hurting now or doing whats best for now.

It’s the hardest thing to do at times. But the best thing to do many times.

Have a good weekend Sweethearts.

Remember to smile..*hugz*

Kiss & Tell

If given a chance to describe myself without any classification. How would I describe myself?

Right now, the things that appeals to describe myself to blogsville is this prescribtion.

I am a box full of secrets.

I don’t tell
I don’t swell
I don’t dwell

I just felt.
I'm a guess.

Perhaps that would be the underlying description to the item itself. A mysterious self.

Now I am interested about ya.

Now given a chance, How would you describe yourself?

Pic: SweetSTickyChewy aka Me

StrumDoms

Love songs that speak of the present may be a better option than love songs that speaks of the past filled with regrets, memories and wanderings of ‘what could have been’ or ‘would have beens.’ It strums your heartstrings to a melody of the past awakening unecessary what ifs and wanderings of the mind. Despite the wonderful music, voices and words that draws us. The bad influence will be when it sent us to a moment where we should not even turn to look back at once.

So yeah things was good. Could have been good. And might just work out some day, somewhere out of the blue. But sitting and wishing that all day? Hello?! It will just be YOUR Loss or your head sitting on the bed, For all you know the other party could have happily moved on with great smiles to fill his/her day. If you think it could have been or would have been someday someway. Than I say, “fine if you say so.” But than again sitting all day, wishing, pondering and dreaming of “the could be someday” would just not make your day, get you a room to stay or even fulfill your say.

So what I am saying here is. Alright fine. So you think someday everything will come to place and he/she might come running back to you. Fair enough. If that’s the way you feel. Than so be it. But that does not mean you have to put your whole life on hold and just brood over it righty? (Thank God for little commitments like jobs and schools that help us going honestly.) I guess that part is really out of our hands. We can’t force a person to come back, love us or even once again be the person they were the last time. People change. For all you know when the person come. You will realise that you just miss the people who were in the relationship the last time. It just might not be the same anymore. Cause now, its just two different people facing life.

And if ever so it is destined that you and your fellow mate be together again. Than God up there will have a way. If not, it will just be you in your endless thoughts of what could have been or should have been. I am not saying you should throw it away cause I understand its not in a finger click that you chase a heartbreak away. What I am saying here is. The ending note to the melody is not in your control. You have no control of that "someday". Cause chemistry just happen. You don’t plan for it and you don’t really work for it. Likewise, if there is really something real. It will happen. If not, you should really count yourself lucky. You know why, it shows he/she is not the best option just the better option. Yup I know. Its not as easy as the way I said it. True! You are so right. Its not. But its possible. So possible to the point of you making it happen.

One thing, just because someone is missing does not mean another relationship will fulfill your day. Jumping from relationship to relationship just to fill a void is not it. It digs a deeper grave. Its coming back to You that will fulfill your day.

All of us are in an endless cycle. If not about love. Its about other things in life. Some things I realise are just out of our control. We have no head or tail about it. But what I know is we can decide to be the head or tail of the situations and ourselves. Some things are just better off left for the higher power to intervene. That does not mean we can be complacent and not work for anything. Yet there is nothing to be ashame about brooding over it. Cause honestly all of us have done it. Its just that some of us have come out of it and see the foolishness of prolonging. Things work differently with different people. But than again, no one has an excuse in getting too caught up with the dreams and vision. Sometimes it boils down back to the fundamentals.

Juz my say.

Rock your world.