Met up with two beautiful individuals on two different days. All wrapped in positiveness yet preserved more towards the negativeness. I have to confess, that it is pretty much a draining experience despite the fundamentals. I am affected. On two whole days, I was affected. Its amazing how you still love them despite their imperfections. But yes, I did wish within me that they enjoyed the moment instead of talk about the things that angered them and question their person. Cause it in turn affected me and blew me out of proportion. They left with good feelings texting me what a great time they had and how I had been a wonderful listener. Little did they know that I felt a big bang. I was upset cause I was there.I loved the moment and their presence. But I hated how I was affected.
The whole world bleeds. Not one is left in perfection.Yet when we bleed, we tend to feel we deserve some attention. At the end of the day everyone do feel we deserve a definition. At times, its best kept silent. Talking about it could ease a little but brings you down abit lower. Not meant to be left as being ignorant. But some things are just not worth a listen and a relation. It depends on the situation.
The whole world bleeds. Not one is left in perfection.Yet when we bleed, we tend to feel we deserve some attention. At the end of the day everyone do feel we deserve a definition. At times, its best kept silent. Talking about it could ease a little but brings you down abit lower. Not meant to be left as being ignorant. But some things are just not worth a listen and a relation. It depends on the situation.
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Amy I know what u mean! OMG this post I can sooo relate with. And it's the same thing Im saying in my current post! Somethings r not worth talking abt...seriously!
**The whole world bleeds. Not one is left in perfection.Yet when we bleed, we tend to feel we deserve some attention
Loved how u put it across.
Its true...sometimes ppl dun think that they r not the ONLY ones who r bleeding. EVERY one of us is. It's good to talk abt things, but somethings r just not worth the hassle of spoiling the listener's mind. Like it did for ya. Silence is a great thing u know...
And if I had to pour my heart out, I hv LOADS to do so Amy...trust me Im dealing somethings that r not even imaginable..but I choose to keep quiet cos speaking abt it is (which I hv done in the past n received no solace at all from anyone) is a waste of breath n time.
Keshi.
And I dun wanna burden others by telling em abt my issues that wont get healed anyways.
Keshi.
Hi,
The whole world bleeds: I am afraid it is a very nasty thing to say.
Hey, by the way, I missed you at my blog. So here is a special invite...
Spot on.
I beg to differ from the last comment of Keshi.
We need to communicate, otherwise we will end up exploding ourselves. Keeping things inside, only affects us. Its great to talk about things and what happened with you and all. Chatting is not bad, actually.
Problem occurs when this chat turns negative or degrades others. This is where one should be decisive - to hear it or leave right then.
If it affects you, and you can't help feeling bad after its over, its better to be selfish and walk away. As I always say, you can't help others when you are broken.
Just being polite doesn't help. It doesn't convey how YOU feel. Its just not open communication!!! Just doesn't work. Its better to say, "Hey! Hold it right there. I have a feeling that whatever happened to you was bad.. but unfortunately I have been through a lot... and will love to be with you when I am feeling better. Thanks!"
How the person takes it, is upto him/her. You are not harming anyone by not listening to them. They will get someone else.
Keshi: Heyz Sweets.:)
***but somethings r just not worth the hassle of spoiling the listener's mind. Like it did for ya. Silence is a great thing u know...
Yeah especially when its negative and not healthy.:) I have to agree with ya.
***And if I had to pour my heart out, I hv LOADS to do so Amy...trust me Im dealing somethings that r not even imaginable..but I choose to keep quiet cos speaking abt it is (which I hv done in the past n received no solace at all from anyone) is a waste of breath n time.
There was something i learnt as i grew. There is a right time and right person for each problem. Not everyone can handle it.
Thanks for your comment Keshi.
*Huggiz*
Cheeries!
Kulpreet:***The whole world bleeds: I am afraid it is a very nasty thing to say.
nah i don't think its a nasty thing to say. ITs true ain't it?
Whats with da special invite man.lol.
Will pop by.
Cheers!
Ashu: Thanks Ashu.:)
Cheers!
Nahuatl:Hello..:)
***Problem occurs when this chat turns negative or degrades others. This is where one should be decisive - to hear it or leave right then.
You just hit the bull's eye. Thats exactly what it is and what happened.
I am glad to have read ya comment.Many things apply.
Thanks!
*Huggiz*
Nahuatl tnxx for ur views. I agree...we need to talk..should not bottle up things - it's really not good for urself. BUT,
**Problem occurs when this chat turns negative or degrades others. This is where one should be decisive - to hear it or leave right then.
thats exactly what I meant! :)
And trust me, I hv faced it...when my feelings were ridiculed and disrespected. And that's when I stopped TALKING. Cos it's not worth it is it.
Keshi.
Amy tnxx!
** There is a right time and right person for each problem. Not everyone can handle it.
Very well-said girl!
And rem, sometimes there's no other person, but urself.
Keshi.
Keshi:***And rem, sometimes there's no other person, but urself
I have to agree with that.;) It begins with us most of the time and ends with us.
Thanks Sweets!
*Hugz*
If this is how u write when u r bored of blogging then stay that way...:P
Good day pretty girl..:)
Southpaw: Hellooo
***If this is how u write when u r bored of blogging then stay that way...:P
Hmm..ok is that on a positive note. If yes that i am taking it.;)
Cheeries!
Ofcourse i m saying it on a positive note prettygirl...:)
Southpaw: ;) Thanks Southpaw.
Thx Keshi for not taking my statement negatively :)
Sometimes there is no-one to listen to you.. but then, you can always find one. Remember that!
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