StrumDoms

Love songs that speak of the present may be a better option than love songs that speaks of the past filled with regrets, memories and wanderings of ‘what could have been’ or ‘would have beens.’ It strums your heartstrings to a melody of the past awakening unecessary what ifs and wanderings of the mind. Despite the wonderful music, voices and words that draws us. The bad influence will be when it sent us to a moment where we should not even turn to look back at once.

So yeah things was good. Could have been good. And might just work out some day, somewhere out of the blue. But sitting and wishing that all day? Hello?! It will just be YOUR Loss or your head sitting on the bed, For all you know the other party could have happily moved on with great smiles to fill his/her day. If you think it could have been or would have been someday someway. Than I say, “fine if you say so.” But than again sitting all day, wishing, pondering and dreaming of “the could be someday” would just not make your day, get you a room to stay or even fulfill your say.

So what I am saying here is. Alright fine. So you think someday everything will come to place and he/she might come running back to you. Fair enough. If that’s the way you feel. Than so be it. But that does not mean you have to put your whole life on hold and just brood over it righty? (Thank God for little commitments like jobs and schools that help us going honestly.) I guess that part is really out of our hands. We can’t force a person to come back, love us or even once again be the person they were the last time. People change. For all you know when the person come. You will realise that you just miss the people who were in the relationship the last time. It just might not be the same anymore. Cause now, its just two different people facing life.

And if ever so it is destined that you and your fellow mate be together again. Than God up there will have a way. If not, it will just be you in your endless thoughts of what could have been or should have been. I am not saying you should throw it away cause I understand its not in a finger click that you chase a heartbreak away. What I am saying here is. The ending note to the melody is not in your control. You have no control of that "someday". Cause chemistry just happen. You don’t plan for it and you don’t really work for it. Likewise, if there is really something real. It will happen. If not, you should really count yourself lucky. You know why, it shows he/she is not the best option just the better option. Yup I know. Its not as easy as the way I said it. True! You are so right. Its not. But its possible. So possible to the point of you making it happen.

One thing, just because someone is missing does not mean another relationship will fulfill your day. Jumping from relationship to relationship just to fill a void is not it. It digs a deeper grave. Its coming back to You that will fulfill your day.

All of us are in an endless cycle. If not about love. Its about other things in life. Some things I realise are just out of our control. We have no head or tail about it. But what I know is we can decide to be the head or tail of the situations and ourselves. Some things are just better off left for the higher power to intervene. That does not mean we can be complacent and not work for anything. Yet there is nothing to be ashame about brooding over it. Cause honestly all of us have done it. Its just that some of us have come out of it and see the foolishness of prolonging. Things work differently with different people. But than again, no one has an excuse in getting too caught up with the dreams and vision. Sometimes it boils down back to the fundamentals.

Juz my say.

Rock your world.