Greetings, I have met a lady who would like to use a strap-on on
me, a favorite of mine.

I don't own one and would like to get one for her to use. Can
anyone with strap-on experience tell me if there are good models
that are designed to stimulate the lady physically as she uses
it to penetrate her sub? Many thanks in advance.

Being cuckolded has been a long time fantasy. It finally
happened just one month ago, the day after my birthday. She
brought a "Sexy Marine" to our home for "Afternoon delight".

I was not allowed to be there and she called me after he left to
come home. The smile on her face and excitement in her voice let
me know that i was now truly cuckolded. i was ecstatic about it
from her reaction.

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The Countess and the Caretaker - part thirteen
By Christine Stevenson, http://www.mschristine.com
Copyright 1986-2007 Christine and David Stevenson

When they reached the door of her apartment, she slid the key
into the lock, raised her skirt and removed her knickers. These
she stuffed into his mouth, as she unclipped the lead and
leaving the collar on him, she turned, walked through the door
and closed it on him.

Re: Male Chastity Devices

My fiance has had me in a Lori frenum tube device, off and on,
with the time in the tube increasing each time.

The tube is one inch in diameter and about two and a quarter
inches long with the penis head covered by metal bars. The tube
is substantial, but the ability to wear it for a long period
depends on the care taken to finish the interior edges of the
holes that the frenum rod goes through. The care taken to finish
the interior edges of the holes could have been better.

Any "tube" chastity device will allow masturbation with the use
of a vibrator, it takes some effort, but, "Have vibrator
(bullet), have orgasm!" There is no way to disable orgasmic
response to vibration. Roll your eyes at hype to the contrary.

What counts in a relationship that includes chastity is the
woman's intent in the matter. If she prefers oral sex to coitus,
chastity can be very real in the relationship.

Fred

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want to develop sincere Female dominant/male submissive
relationships. The Dommes are in charge of the activities at all
times; and, ClubFEM Dommes are considerate and caring Women who
want the D/s experience to be enjoyable for all participants.
ClubFEM members get to know each other very well and even get
together for vanilla activities occasionally. The Dommes are
friendly and helpful to other Dommes who wish to grow in their
fetish knowledge and abilities.

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The Countess and the Caretaker - part twelve
By Christine Stevenson, http://www.mschristine.com
Copyright 1986-2007 Christine and David Stevenson

Back in the relative safety of the car, he gave her the package
and curled up comfortably at her feet, willing the car to take
them home.

The Countess, as usual, had a different idea and told her
Chauffeur to take his time and to take the shore road,
effectively going miles out of their way.

She then edged her skirt up a little and began caressing her
legs, moving up higher as she began to get excited, until her
hand was on her crotch. She rubbed and teased her pubic area with
her fingers, and began to breathe more deeply.

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Mistress Sue

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lucky would not pretend to advise for a situation the details of
which lucky does not know. But just as a general observation,
lucky would think any wife with cuckolding propensities would
benefit from getting to know other dommes and seeing the
lifestyle as more natural.

lucky's Owner probably would be more likely to call the
lifestyle one of polyamory, with the Domme being free to
determine who is in Her polyamorous circle and, of course, Her
slaves not.

If a slave, husband or otherwise, wishes the One to whom he is
devoted to be at Her happiest, then this is the natural way to
go. A wife new to this, as perhaps jim's wife is, will feel more
natural and liberated by meeting others who see polyamory as
natural and the way things should be.

sub male here waiting for superior fem domme. Your pleasure and
assertion is my obligation. A cushion may be needed!

I felt quite honored to have received a response from Mistress
Milliscent herself! ;)

My wife is still not sold on the need for a chastity device; she
worries about my discomfort and I have historically had very
good self control when it comes to masturbation, etc... I\We
certainly don't feel I 'need' it.... but think it sounds like
fun to use on occasions.

I would like to share a link to an Essay that we read last night
that she found very interesting. On the topic of orgasm control
for the benefit of the marriage:

http://www.geocities.com/toyboy101/index.html

I think this essay's been around for a while but if you're a
newbie, like myself, looking for a way to introduce your wife to
the benefits of tease/denial/etc.. I think it's a great,
inspirational read.

Thanks again!
johnny

The points of intrigue would help prevent that, but they really
smart, and are very distracting. (Use only for punishment, and
then for the short term).

The logical option is: get your penis pierced and use the bar to
secure the cage, or use another device that utilizes the bar or
ring. (Lori tube etc). The other no-nonsense belts, the
stainless steel ones, are too much, conceptually, for my
Wife/Mistress and me.

One idea i've thought about is using a lockable harness, as
advertised on Extreme Restraints, and somehow affix the CBX000
to it. The wearer would need to be freed to relieve his bowels,
especially with the butt plug in place, but that seems like
great fun, albeit impractical if your Mistress is away for a
month.

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>a site that might address your slippage problem (no personal
>experience here though). A small retailer of CB3000 products,
>they also seem to have developed a few accessories that look
>intriguing. The KSD-G2 is supposed to reduce the accidental
>(and intentional) pull-outs.

I purchased the KSD-G2. The retailer/manufacturer delivered
great service and they were easy to deal with.

I think that as advertised, the attachment would reduce pull
outs, but even properly fitted there are a couple of drawbacks I
noticed.

The device needs to be tight to work. This makes it extremely
difficult to actually get the CB3000 on. Once it is on all works
well, but I personally wondered how safe it was to have
something tightly fitted for long term wear. For that reason, I
have not used it for more than a few hours, and wouldn't
recommend it for long term use.

Milliscent

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>I'm at that delicate point of being really excited that she's
>found a kink she enjoys, but a little nervous of what the
>future holds..

Don't let your fear overcome your desire and back away now or
she may not want to explore other kinks further. It is important
that you show her how much you love it at this point.

>From what I understand the Curve is meant for either really
>hung guys (I'm average I think) or to allow for partial
>erection without the ability to touch... Whereas the CB3000 is
>to prevent any erection. Having never experienced either of
>these (and not wanting to pony up the cash for both just to
>find out for myself), which would produce the most beneficial
>effects of short term chastity?

I think that the 3000 will work well for the 'average' guy. It
does not however prevent erections, I've seen many instances of
a man hard as a rock and spilling out the confines of the cage.
It's quite fun!

Miss E Wrote:

>He was in his CB3000 and during a period when he was locked up
>in his cage he relaxed to a point that he unintentionally
>slipped out of the CB. I know it was unintentional as I was
>watching him at that point.

I have experienced this as well but with slightly different
cause and effect. In my case the fellow was wearing tight jeans
and the 3000 got somehow caught on them. While he was carrying
something the device twisted and a single testicle pulled
through the opening between the ring and the cage. It was
extremely painful, and remained extremely painful for quite a
while as the keys were intentionally elsewhere and needed to be
fetched. The device was properly fitted and attached, the forces
applied to it while he was doing the physical labor were just
too much.

I think Johnny's wife's fantasy of a month is chastity while she
is away is a great one, and certainly worth exploring. I imagine
that while he would be mighty frustrated Johnny would love it as
well. I don't know that the CB line of products is appropriate
for such long term play though. A tube made by Ms. Lori would be
more comfortable, effective, and not risk the slips mentioned
here.

Milliscent

http://www.milliscent.com
http://milliscent.blogspot.com

Aside from such activities, the feeling of it became second
nature fairly quickly and was only appreciably painful when
mistress was teasing my cock beyond the limits of the cage. But
then, that was her intention.

Soumis

>but I'm also concerned about negative effects of the stress
>and loss of sleep...

There's always a price to pay. Be aware you may not like the
additional cost of comfort.

There's a prostate massage tool called an Aneros which can be
found on the internet. Massage with this item will milk the
prostate easily. Many men find it a humiliating experience to be
relieved in such a way - something which troubles me not at all.

I have also used another of Christine's methods to my
satisfaction, but not entirely to my husband's. I like
stimulating him to the edge with my hand until he's on the verge
of spurting at which point I simply let go of him. Without
friction he will be unable to spurt but sort of dribbles the
cum. The result is that he's aware of his need for sex and of
his inability to have it.

He is able to sleep although he often reports having "weird
dreams".

With regard to your wife leaving you in chastity for the summer
I wouldn't worry too much as long as you are able to clean
yourself while locked. There are plenty of men here who can
offer you practical suggestions on hygiene so it shouldn't be
too much of a problem.

I've been told by several medical doctors that keeping you
locked in chastity is not likely to keep your body from
releasing on its own. You will simply go back to having
nocturnal emissions just like when you went through puberty.

In my opinion there are enough opposing medical opinions on this
to warrant the purchase and use of the Aneros. I'm sure your
wife may find pleasure in the knowledge that you are having to
stimulate your orgasms via your rectum while she's away. It may
inspire her to shop next for a strap on and harness.

Your research probably won't help you much on that shopping
spree. It's a matter of the lady's comfort. When she gets to the
point where she wants the information we'll be here.

Miss E wrote:

>He was in his CB3000 and during a period when he was locked up
>in his cage he relaxed to a point that he unintentionally
>slipped out of the CB. I know it was unintentional as I was
>watching him at that point

That was the experience my husband had with his CB2000 as well.
I never considered it to be more than a toy, a less expensive
option which might be used to see if long term chastity was
desired.

Madam

In my shopping around I did find a site that might address your
slippage problem (no personal experience here though). A small
retailer of CB3000 products, they also seem to have developed a
few accessories that look intriguing. The KSD-G2 is supposed to
reduce the accidental (and intentional) pull-outs.

(a quick Google on this will take you there if interested, I
don't feel right plugging URLs for commercial sites)

I enjoyed browsing their site as it seems to be very focused on
loving marriage applications and is full of tips and
suggestions. Though there is one link that did seem to go off on
a rather strong religious note... Just shows, in my mind, how
diverse a group of people we are.

johnny

He was in his CB3000 and during a period when he was locked up
in his cage he relaxed to a point that he unintentionally
slipped out of the CB. I know it was unintentional as I was
watching him at that point.

Also personally I would not keep my sub in a chastity device
without training for such an extended period of time. But others
may disagree.

I would leave instructions and expect them to be followed.

Also for the phone costs:- If you both have access to computers,
try Skype it is free computer to computer. My sub and I use it a
lot when he travels for work

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